Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Research of interest III

I've been reading a lot lately about happiness and joy. You know why if you've been reading my blog for a few weeks. What makes a person happy? What influences happiness and what leads to joy? There are certain external factors and many internal factors that influence our level of happiness. But there is no "one size fits all" in regards to happiness and how to get it. There are a few common elements however. This study points out some of the important factors that influence happiness:

Studies show that money can buy happiness, but only until the point where you have enough to cover expenses for food, shelter, health care, and transportation. After that, more money brings diminishing returns. So, where to put your energy and resources if you want to maximize your happiness?

INVEST IN YOUR HEALTH – Health is a prerequisite to happiness. In other words, You can't be happy if you're unhealthy. Eating wisely and moving naturally are the best way to get fit
CREATE QUALITY FRIENDSHIPS – When it comes to a social network, quality is more important the quantity. Having two good friends who care about you – whether your chips are up or down – is more important than a huge network. We often forget that friends rarely come on their own accord: they require effort, time and nurturing.
EXPLORE YOUR RELIGION – World surveys show that religious people are more happy than non-religious people. Religious people are more likely to have a strong social network and to be at peace with their lives and mortality. What to do: if you have a religion, make and effort to reconnect with it. If not, visit four new religous communities in the next three months and see if any of them align with your values.
SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOUR HOBBY – Build a model, knit a sweater, climb a cliff, cook a gourmet meal. The point is to spend time engaged in activities wherein you are optimally challenged, you get immediate feedback, you lose sense of time and you do it because it's intrinsically rewarding. It is perhaps the best way to achieve authentic sustainable happiness.
IF YOU'RE UNHAPPY, MOVE – Where you live has a bigger impact on your happiness than your marital status, income, or even education level. If you are not happy where you are, consider moving. World-wide studies show that the happiest places on earth are not tropical islands but place where you feel secure, people around you have the same level of status as you do and it's easy to find a job that is interesting.

Do you have other items to add to the list?

2 comments:

Vonnie said...

Good advice for the new year. Love you, Vonnie.

vfr

Anonymous said...

I cant think why I would have said that you girls all get along so well, even tho different, on the subject of joy!! Anyway, I think you can find joy each day if you say to yourself each morning when you wake, I will be happy today, no matter what. Love Mom