Showing posts with label Goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Goals. Show all posts

Friday, March 23, 2018

John 14: 26-27, Peace I leave with you...


Stake Women's Conference
Presentation of the theme: John 14: 26-27
My intro talk about our theme

Our desire today is that you will feel our Savior’s love for you as a dear daughter of God who is valued and cherished and watched over and guided.  We hope that when you leave the conference later today, you will be buoyed up, with new ideas and ways of looking at the challenges in life.  We hope that you will be more appreciative of the joy that comes to you in your life.  Many of you are looking for peace and comfort and it is our fervent prayer that you will be inspired by the Holy Ghost to attend the classes today that will best meet your needs and give you the peace you are seeking.  Our presenters are all well prepared and have sought the guidance of the spirit.  One class will be taught in Spanish for those who would like to hear this beautiful language, either because it is their native  language or because it was their mission language.

After seeking the guidance of the spirit, our presidency has chosen the theme found in John 14: 26-27.  In this chapter, Jesus is preparing his disciples for the time when he will no longer be with them.  He has taught them well and then states in vs. 25: “these things I have spoken unto you, yet being present with you.”  But he wasn’t  always going to be present with them and of course he isn’t physically present with us either.  But then he tells them of a great gift he is going to leave with them and says “But the Comforter, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.”

The footnotes tell us what we probably already know, that the Comforter is the Holy Ghost.  Each of you here today who have been baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have been give this gift!  Are you using it to bless your life?  Are you accessing the power and help that comes through this incomprehensible gift?  Are you underutilizing this precious gift and are you looking for help for challenges and answers elsewhere? Are you letting The Holy Ghost teach you and bring all things to your remembrance?  Are you letting it teach you how to deal with challenging children, stressful work situations, aging parents, unhappy marriages, financial difficulties, mental health issues, loneliness, infertility, too much fertility, and so on and so on?  Are you letting it bring to your remembrance all the good times of the past that you have enjoyed with family and friends, the joy of a wedding day, the time when you felt the spirit for the first time; the time when you knew that this church was Christ’s church restored on the earth for the last time, or the time when you read the Book of Mormon and felt the truthfulness of it burn into your heart and know that is was the word of God? 

How much time do we spend being taught by the Comforter and letting Him teach us continually the teachings of Christ?  How often do we invite the Comforter to comfort us?  Let the Comforter do his job!  Invite him to comfort YOU!

Going on in vs. 27 Jesus says:  Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; not as the word giveth, give I unto you.  Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. 

We receive peace through Christ!  He gives his peace in a unique and special way, tailored for our individual needs and circumstances.  But sisters, we have to ask for it.  We have to actively seek it.  We have to look for peace in places where he has said we will find it.  Places like our homes, the scriptures, through prayer, by going to the temple, at church, listening to general conference, doing Family History work, going on a family reunion and connecting with our loved ones, praying with our spouses or alone if no spouse is readily available for a time.  We may find answers and peace through chats with trusted friends, or through professionals who are trained in the skills of sorting out the challenges in life.  We find peace in The Savior’s words, following his example, and truly trying to be more like Him.  Peace is available to them who seek it.  Simple enough, right?  If only it were so.

The world cannot give us this peace, and it never will.  The world is lead by the great destroyer will tell you that you’re not good enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not desirable, not talented and that you have nothing to offer.  Don’t listen to this con artist, the teller of lies and the great deceiver.  He wants you to join his ranks and he will stay at it, chipping away at your peace and comfort with great skill and patience.  Turn him away and tell him that you’re on the Lord’s side!

We just sang a rousing hymn, “There is Sunshine in my soul today.”  I loved to hear you sing with gusto! Let that light, which is Jesus shine in your life!  Because as the next line says: And Jesus listening can hear, the songs I cannot sing.”  He is the only one who knows the songs you cannot sing, the desires of your heart and your innermost yearnings.  Reread Elder Holland April 2017 talk for valuable insights.  He says:


Brothers and sisters, we live in a mortal world with many songs we cannot or do not yet sing. But I plead with each one of us to stay permanently and faithfully in the choir, where we will be able to savor forever that most precious anthem of all—“the song of redeeming love.”11 Fortunately, the seats for this particular number are limitless. There is room for those who speak different languages, celebrate diverse cultures, and live in a host of locations. There is room for the single, for the married, for large families, and for the childless. There is room for those who once had questions regarding their faith and room for those who still do. There is room for those with differing sexual attractions. In short, there is a place for everyone who loves God and honors His commandments as the inviolable measuring rod for personal behavior, for if love of God is the melody of our shared song, surely our common quest to obey Him is the indispensable harmony in it. With divine imperatives of love and faith, repentance and compassion, honesty and forgiveness, there is room in this choir for all who wish to be there.12 “Come as you are,” a loving Father says to each of us, but He adds, “Don’t plan to stay as you are.” We smile and remember that God is determined to make of us more than we thought we could be.

Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal, cure or remove.*
(from the hymn, Come, Ye Disconsolate)

My testimony.

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Goals for 2016


I have to set goals.  They keep me going, motivated and thinking about worthwhile things to do. Maybe goals are so important to me because we learned how to set and achieve goals in the mission field.  Maybe it is because I worked with Young Women for so many years and goal setting was a major part of what we did.  Whatever it is, I'm a happier person if I have some goals in mind.

I know I set some very ambitious goals last year, but that was by design.  I knew I would be retiring from work and I knew I needed to figure out some ways to stay involved in things I enjoy and that I feel make a difference.  I know myself pretty well and I know that I'm happiest when I'm serving others.  Period. For me, a lot of sitting around doing mindless things is a recipe for disaster. Depression can easily set in and by keeping busy with things I enjoy, I can avoid that condition.

Anyway, I achieved most of my goals last year.  This year, I want to finish up the ones I didn't finish and move on to some new ones.  I put them here for my own use and motivation.  I may be the only one who tracks how I am doing, but putting them down here makes me feel more accountable to myself.
So...with that in mind:

Goals for 2016
1.  Finish sewing something for Lauren, Ellie and Margaret.
2.  Attend a sewing class and learn some new techniques.
3.  Start writing my personal history
4.  Lose 16 pounds in '16 (I'm not giving up!)
5.  Sew many of my Christmas presents for 2016
6.  Do some sort of exercise five days a week
7.  Work on improving a Christ like attribute each month
8.  Read the Old Testament, study the Book of Mormon
9.  Visit with or do something for people who have struggles
10.  Read 16 books

Of course I'll keep dejunking my house
Serving on the UVU WSC board
Serving at the MTC
helping my mother
doing things with people I care about
attending the temple
traveling
reading the Ensign
working on our photo albums
gardening
and best of all...spending time with my husband, children and grandchildren

But, I've discovered I have to have my own stuff apart from anyone else.  Having my own life and my own interests, hobbies and service opportunities takes a concerted effort on my part.  It should be an easy thing to do, but for me it isn't.  It feels so self-absorbed.  Retirement is great, but it is work to be happily retired.  I do love being my own boss and coming and going as I please.  I love being available and able to do things with little notice.  I love the spontaneity and ability I have to set up my own day, week and year.  I have to have some sort of human interaction and dialogue every day, but it is up to me to see that that happens.  I have so many blessings and opportunities and I want to take full advantage of all that I have at this point in my life.  Life is good, but it's up to me to keep it going that way.  There are sad things going on, hard things in our family and extended family that make me sad and heartbroken.  Dwelling on the hard and difficult parts of life isn't healthy.  Worrying about those I love and what they are going through can be overwhelming.  I can't help others if I'm not in good shape physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and financially.  "Put your own life support on first, then help others" they say. It's what I am trying to do.

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Final 2015 goal report

1.  COMPLETED. Attend all 15 temples in Utah and attend the temple twice a month.  What happens in temples?  Pictures of inside the Temple?
January - 1. Salt Lake City with Stephanie as she received her endowment and Phoenix temple, February - 2. Monticello temple 3. Provo temple March - 4. Jordan River temple and 5. Bountiful temple, April - 6. Mt. Timpanogos temple and 7. Draper temple,  May - 8. Oquirrah Mountain temple and Mt. Timpanogos temple,  June - Salt Lake City temple July - 9. Brigham City temple August - 10. St. George temple and 11. Manti temple September - Nauvoo temple, Los Angeles temple, October - 12. Logan temple and 13. Payson temple, November - 14. Vernal temple and Salt Lake city temple December - 15. Ogden temple
I LOVED COMPLETING THIS GOAL! Each temple was so different and varied that it would be hard to say which ones were our favorites.  They are all so beautiful and we enjoyed doing temple work in each of them.
Payson
Vernal
Ogden
Salt Lake City at Christmas time
2.  MOSTLY COMPLETED - read the Ensign every month.  This goal was harder to complete than I expected.  Just taking TIME to do it was the challenge.
      January - check
      February - check
      March - check
      April - check
      May - check
      June - check
      July - check
      August - half way
      September - half way
      October - check
     November - didn't complete
     December - didn't complete

3.  COMPLETED - dejunk, clean and organize my home - this will be an ongoing project to keep getting rid of stuff and downsizing
In June I got busy and cleaned by garage and my home.  I washed windows, organized by garage and deep cleaned the rest of my home.  I hired Audrey to come and help me and we made a lot of progress.  I still have more work to do in the office, but that will be a good fall project.

In November, I tackled the catch all room - the office - and got rid of a bunch of stuff and organized the rest.  These are the before pictures.


These are the after ones:








4.  COMPLETED FOR THIS YEAR - ONGOING - update all my photo albums, label and date them
While in St. George for a week, I started this process by organizing all the loose photos and starting putting them back in the albums where they belong

5.  NOT COMPLETED - start writing my personal history, will work on this in 2016

6.  MOSTLY COMPLETED sew something for each grandchild
     made Lizzie an apron
     made Will a Superman cape
     made Charlie a Captain America cape
     made Lizzie a dress for Kindergarten
     made Ada a dress for Kindergarten
     made a "Thomas the train" book and pillowcase for Tommy boy on his 2nd birthday



I still want to make something for Ellie, Lauren and Margaret

7.  EPIC FAIL - NEXT YEAR! sew my Christmas presents

8.  COMPLETED - spend more time in my yard gardening, etc.
In May, Rick and I worked in our yard to get things cleaned up.  We hired his brother to remove some Aspen trees that were taking over the place and we planted flowers in our flower beds and we even planted a salsa garden in our neighbors yard.  It is a work in progress, but we have made great strides.  I love working outdoors!

9.  MOSTLY COMPLETED - walk 10,000 steps 5 days a week (thanks to my new FitBit this will be measurable!)
    January -  I'm averaging about 6,000 steps over five days a week, thanks to my FitBit for keeping track.   February - I need to kick that up once I can get outside more.  Not doing as well as I would like to.  March - my FitBit stopped working, but I'm doing my routine and hopefully hitting my goal.  April - August:  I'm still making progress and walking as much as I can. Making good progress through September when I lost my FitBit in Nauvoo :(  Got a new one in late October and got going again tracking my progress even though I was walking without it.  Walking with friend Mary in the mornings is wonderful and I'm back to a good routine.  I probably averaged between 5,000-6,000 steps.  I need to get going more and keep up this trend.  I do enjoy walking.

10.  EPIC FAIL - Lose 15 pounds
     Lost the two I put on plus one more.  Moving in the right direction now. Slowly. March - slow progress, 1 pound lost, April - August - lost four more pounds, September and October brought back the weight...darn.  Traveling and trying to lose weight is not a good combination.  I took off and put back on the same 5-6 pounds the whole year.  I need a new strategy!

11.  COMPLETED - Read 15 books
       Orphan Train
       Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet
       Mary, the Mother of Jesus
       Letters of a Woman Homesteader
       Not Fade Away
       Mountains Beyond Mountains
       the life-changing magic of tidying up
       My Antonia
      Joseph Smith, Rough Stone Rolling
      Shepherds Why This Jubilee?
      Marjorie Cannon Pingree life story
      Serafina and the Black Cloak
      I read about 30 children's Christmas books myself and to the grandkids
      The Book of Mormon - I finished at 10:00 pm on New Year's eve.  My favorite book of the year!

12.  COMPLETED, BUT NEVER FINISHED - support and love my mother more in her advancing years
       January - visited Mom at her home and took her to the Hardware Ranch, a place she use to visit as a child,  February - called her several times a week, March - visited for the weekend, helped her set up her patio, went on some drives, helped her with her meds, etc. she attended my 60th birthday party May - visited and helped out over a weekend, June - she attended our birthday party and family reunion, July - visited her and stayed overnight, August - visited and stayed over two nights, September - talked on the phone twice a week, October - visited and cleaned her house, drove her to the dry farm where she lived summers as a child, November - attended Mom's 89th birthday party and spent two days with her, returned two weeks later with most of our crew and stay with her again, she hosted us all for a pizza dinner, enjoyed spending time with her at my sister's home, went to her home for Christmas.  Enjoyed Christmas eve at Carol's home, dinner with most of the siblings at G&N's home and Christmas day with mom in her home.  Her memory is bad, but her heart is good.  I love my dear mother!

13.  COMPLETED BY NEVER FINISHED - strengthen the relationships with people I care about
January - went to breakfast with Kathleen, attended a concert with Shelley, Kevin, Marie and Cydnee, went to dinner at the Dixon's home, babysat for Adam and Syd so they could have a break, invited Cydnee over for a sleepover, visited Jordan and Jake and family, attended Kate's welcome home, went to the airport to welcome her, went to lunch with LaRita, February - attended a benefit dinner with the Lindleys, visited Claire and R and family, visited Sarah F., had the Densley's over for dinner, attended a bridal shower for Brooke, threw a birthday luncheon for Kathleen, attended and helped at Brooke's wedding reception, March - went to Sofia's thesis defense, enjoyed my mom, sisters and nieces at my 60th birthday party, met Mary R. for lunch, helped Dara with her finances and went to help her find a new place to live, had the Juan P.s over for dinner, went to lunch with Tiffany and Diane, went to dinner with Scott H. and Lori, spent time together getting a pedicure with my aunt Lorna and cousin Diane April - breakfast with my mission companion and one of our converts from Argentina and her daughter.  What a sweet reunion!
Hosted Chelsea's family who came to town for their graduation, celebrated Audrey's graduation by going to lunch, went to AZ to help out the R family after Jake had surgery May visited Dave and Courtney and children in North Carolina for a week, hosted two lunches for the professors who helped A & C at BYU, took care of my friend Sue who had a stroke in my home for a week, June helped Dara with her finances, celebrated our 36th wedding anniversary with Rick, attended Jake's homecoming, went to Rupert for a visit with the Smiths and attended Robert's funeral, went to Yellowstone with Claire and her family, celebrated our 60th birthdays with a party hosted by our kids July hosted 75 people for the 4th of July BBQ, enjoyed a family reunion with our children and grandchildren, enjoyed the visits of our children and their families for most of the month, went to Bear Lake with Rick and his family, August - attended darling niece Taylor's wedding to Brian in the Logan temple, hosted my sisters Ann and Carol and brother Paul for a few days for Education week, hosted Chelsea's grandparents when they came to town to move A & C, hosted Ann and Carol again for the tampon trial, September - started serving as a tutor at the MTC, attended Jordan's birthday and tending their children, spent a wonderful evening with my "old" Rupert friends, went to lunch with friends from my old job at BYU, started tutoring a mission companion of Andy's over Skype in Mongolia, October - attended my niece Megan's wedding to Jeremy, invited niece Kate and her friends over for dinner along with MIL Pat, attended great-niece Rachel's wedding in Logan to Shawn in the Logan temple, went to lunch with long-time friend Kathleen, had Sydney and Adam and boys over for dinner and later tended the boys while they attended the temple November - visited my friend LaRita who had surgery, taught the YW in  our ward a lesson about the importance of education, attended an overnight retreat with the women in our ward, tended for Syd and Adam while they went to the temple, continued teaching and tutoring missionaries at the MTC, went to lunch with my friend Sue B., attended the funeral of a friend John L., invited Cydnee to join our family for Thanksgiving dinner December - attended Ellie's baptism, saw Paul and DeNae, feed the sister missionaries dinner, took Cydnee shopping for a Christmas gift, spent the day with her, did the 12 days of Christmas for a family in our ward, continued to work on Dara's finances, hosted Dave and Courtney and their family and later the AZ crew for Christmas, invited Sue B. to the MTChoir Christmas concert, invited our friends the Philipp family over for dinner with 35 in attendance

14.  COMPLETED FOR 2015, BUT ONGOING - serve at UVU in the Women's Success Center board
Met for two board meetings and contributed.  Signed up to mentor three college students, got training and met with them individually (one widowed mother of five, one 18 year old, one 20 year old from a troubled family) to help them work towards receiving a college degree, attended more meetings and met with my mentees and provided breakfast, attended a talk by Sheri Dew sponsored by the Women's Success center, met with my mentees during the month, attended the closing social with my mentees, helped set up a meeting with some potential donors to the WSC, attended monthly meetings, signed up to mentor three new UVU young women, meeting with them monthly, attended President Holland's annual breakfast with board members, invited my college girl mentees over in December to make Christmas treats for them to take home after finals.

15.  COMPLETED!!! finish visiting the rest of the 50 states I haven't been to including: Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri and Oklahoma - Oklahoma was my state #50!  This was a fabulous goal to complete and it really stretched us, but we loved it.  We learned so much and had so many valuable and memorable experiences together.

So...9 goals completed, 3 goals mostly completed, 3 goals not completed.  Not bad.  Now on to 2016!

Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Goal report

1.  Attend all 15 temples in Utah and attend the temple twice a month.  What happens in temples?  Pictures of inside the Temple?
January - 1. Salt Lake City with Stephanie as she received her endowment and Phoenix temple, February - 2. Monticello temple and 3. Provo temple, March - 4. Jordan River temple and 5. Bountiful temple, April - 6. Mt. Timpanogos temple and 7. Draper temple,  May - 8. Oquirrah Mountain temple and 9. Timpanogos temple,  June - Salt Lake City temple July - 10. Brigham City temple August - 11. St. George temple and 12. Manti temple September - Nauvoo temple, Los Angeles temple, October - Logan temple
2.  read the Ensign every month
      January - check
      February - check
      March - check
      April - check
      May - check
      June - check
      July - check
      August - almost done
      September - half way
      October - check
3.  dejunk, clean and organize my home - almost done
In June I got busy and cleaned by garage and my home.  I washed windows, organized by garage and deep cleaned the rest of my home.  I hired Audrey to come and help me and we made a lot of progress.  I still have more work to do in the office, but that will be a good fall project.
4.  update all my photo albums, label and date them
While in St. George for a week, I started this process by organizing all the loose photos and starting putting them back in the albums where they belong
5.  start writing my personal history
6.  sew something for each grandchild
     made Lizzie an apron
     made Will a Superman cape
     made Charlie a Captain America cape
     made Lizzie a dress for Kindergarten
     made Ada a dress for Kindergarten
My darling twin cousin girls, here is Lizzie

Ada on her 6th birthday.  She has grey shoes too.
7.  sew my Christmas presents
8.  spend more time in my yard gardening, etc.
In May, Rick and I worked in our yard to get things cleaned up.  We hired his brother to remove some Aspen trees that were taking over the place and we planted flowers in our flower beds and we even planted a salsa garden in our neighbors yard.  It is a work in progress, but we have made great strides.  I love working outdoors!
9.  walk 10,000 steps 5 days a week (thanks to my new FitBit this will be measurable!)
    January -  I'm averaging about 6,000 steps over five days a week, thanks to my FitBit for keeping track.   February - I need to kick that up once I can get outside more.  Not doing as well as I would like to.  March - my FitBit stopped working, but I'm doing my routine and hopefully hitting my goal.  April - August:  I'm still making progress and walking as much as I can. Making good progress through September when I lost my FitBit in Nauvoo :(  Got a new one in late October and got going again tracking my progress even though I was walking without it.  Walking with friend Mary in the mornings is wonderful and I'm back to a good routine.
10.  Lose 15 pounds
     Lost the two I put on plus one more.  Moving in the right direction now. Slowly. March - slow progress, 1 pound lost, April - August - lost four more pounds, September and October brought back the weight...darn.  Traveling and trying to lose weight is not a good combination.
11.  Read 15 books
       Orphan Train
       Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet
       Mary, the Mother of Jesus
       Letters of a Woman Homesteader
       Not Fade Away
       Mountains Beyond Mountains
       the life-changing magic of tidying up
      My Antonia
      Joseph Smith, Rough Stone Rolling

12.  support and love my mother more in her advancing years
       January - visited Mom at her home and took her to the Hardware Ranch, a place she use to visit as a child,  February - called her several times a week, March - visited for the weekend, helped her set up her patio, went on some drives, helped her with her meds, etc. she attended my 60th birthday party May - visited and helped out over a weekend, June - she attended our birthday party and family reunion, July - visited her and stayed overnight, August - visited and stayed over two night, September - talked on the phone twice a week, October - visited and cleaned her house, drove her to the dry farm where she lived summers as a child
13.  strengthen the relationships with people I care about
January - went to breakfast with Kathleen, attended a concert with Shelley, Kevin, Marie and Cydnee, went to dinner at the Dixon's home, babysat for Adam and Syd so they could have a break, invited Cydnee over for a sleepover, visited Jordan and Jake and family, attended Kate's welcome home, went to the airport to welcome her, went to lunch with LaRita, February - attended a benefit dinner with the Lindleys, visited Claire and R and family, visited Sarah F., had the Densley's over for dinner, attended a bridal shower for Brooke, threw a birthday luncheon for Kathleen, attended and helped at Brooke's wedding reception, March - went to Sofia's thesis defense, enjoyed my mom, sisters and nieces at my 60th birthday party, met Mary R. for lunch, helped Dara with her finances and went to help her find a new place to live, had the Juan P.s over for dinner, went to lunch with Tiffany and Diane, went to dinner with Scott H. and Lori, spent time together getting a pedicure with my aunt Lorna and cousin Diane April - breakfast with my mission companion and one of our converts from Argentina and her daughter.  What a sweet reunion!
Hosted Chelsea's family who came to town for their graduation, celebrated Audrey's graduation by going to lunch, went to AZ to help out the R family after Jake had surgery May visited Dave and Courtney and children in North Carolina for a week, hosted two lunches for the professors who helped A & C at BYU, took care of my friend Sue who had a stroke in my home for a week, June helped Dara with her finances, celebrated our 36th wedding anniversary with Rick, attended Jake's homecoming, went to Rupert for a visit with the Smiths and attended Robert's funeral, went to Yellowstone with Claire and her family, celebrated our 60th birthdays with a party hosted by our kids July hosted 75 people for the 4th of July BBQ, enjoyed a family reunion with our children and grandchildren, enjoyed the visits of our children and their families for most of the month, went to Bear Lake with Rick and his family, August - attended darling niece Taylor's wedding to Brian in the Logan temple, hosted my sisters Ann and Carol and brother Paul for a few days for Education week, hosted Chelsea's grandparents when they came to town to move A & C, hosted Ann and Carol again for the tampon trial, September - started serving as a tutor at the MTC, attended Jordan's birthday and tending their children, spent a wonderful evening with my "old" Rupert friends, went to lunch with friends from my old job at BYU, started tutoring a mission companion of Andy's over Skype in Mongolia, October - attended my niece Megan's wedding to Jeremy, invited niece Kate and her friends over for dinner along with MIL Pat, attended great-niece Rachel's wedding in Logan to Shawn in the Logan temple, went to lunch with long-time friend Kathleen, had Sydney and Adam and boys over for dinner and later tended the boys while they attended the temple




14.  serve at UVU in the Women's Success Center board
Met for two board meetings and contributed.  Signed up to mentor three college students, got training and met with them individually (one widowed mother of five, one 18 year old, one 20 year old from a troubled family) to help them work towards receiving a college degree, attended more meetings and met with my mentees and provided breakfast, attended a talk by Sheri Dew sponsored by the Women's Success center, met with my mentees during the month, attended the closing social with my mentees, helped set up a meeting with some potential donors to the WSC, attended monthly meetings, signed up to mentor three new UVU young women, meeting with them monthly, attended President Holland's annual breakfast with board members


15.  finish visiting the rest of the 50 states I haven't been to including: Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri and Oklahoma - GOAL COMPLETED!  Oklahoma was state #50!

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Goal report

I've been working away at my goals for the year, even if I haven't been reporting them here.  I have made a lot of progress in the last four months.  Here's my report:

1.  Attend all 15 temples in Utah and attend the temple twice a month.  What happens in temples?  Pictures of inside the Temple?

      January - 1. Salt Lake City with Stephanie as she received her endowment and Phoenix temple, February - 2. Monticello temple and 3. Provo temple, March - 4. Jordan River temple and 5. Bountiful temple, April - 6. Mt. Timpanogos temple and 7. Draper temple,  May - 8. Oquirrah Mountain temple and 9. Timpanogos temple,  June - Salt Lake City temple July - 10. Brigham City temple August - 11. St. George temple and 12. Manti temple

Oquirrah temple
Mt. Timpanogos temple
Draper temple
Logan temple
2.  read the Ensign every month
      January - check
      February - check
      March - check
      April - check
      May - still working on this one
      June - check
      July - still working on this one
3.  dejunk, clean and organize my home - almost done
In June I got busy and cleaned by garage and my home.  I washed windows, organized by garage and deep cleaned the rest of my home.  I hired Audrey to come and help me and we made a lot of progress.  I still have more work to do in the office, but that will be a good fall project.
4.  update all my photo albums, label and date them
While in St. George for a week, I started this process by organizing all the loose photos and starting putting them back in the albums where they belong
5.  start writing my personal history
6.  sew something for each grandchild
     made Lizzie an apron
     made Will a Superman cape
     made Charlie a Captain America cape
7.  sew my Christmas presents
8.  spend more time in my yard gardening, etc.
In May, Rick and I worked in our yard to get things cleaned up.  We hired his brother to remove some Aspen trees that were taking over the place and we planted flowers in our flower beds and we even planted a salsa garden in our neighbors yard.  It is a work in progress, but we have made great strides.  I love working outdoors!
9.  walk 10,000 steps 5 days a week (thanks to my new FitBit this will be measurable!)
    January -  I'm averaging about 6,000 steps over five days a week, thanks to my FitBit for keeping track.   February - I need to kick that up once I can get outside more.  Not doing as well as I would like to.  March - my FitBit stopped working, but I'm doing my routine and hopefully hitting my goal.  April - August:  I'm still making progress and walking as much as I can.
10.  Lose 15 pounds
     Lost the two I put on plus one more.  Moving in the right direction now. Slowly. March - slow progress, 1 pound lost, April - August - lost four more pounds
11.  Read 15 books
       Orphan Train
       Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet
       Mary, the Mother of Jesus
       Letters of a Woman Homesteader
       Not Fade Away
12.  support and love my mother more in her advancing years
       January - visited Mom at her home and took her to the Hardware Ranch, a place she use to visit as a child,  February - called her several times a week, March - visited for the weekend, helped her set up her patio, went on some drives, helped her with her meds, etc. she attended my 60th birthday party May - visited and helped out over a weekend, June - she attended our birthday party and family reunion, July - visited her and stayed overnight
13.  strengthen the relationships with people I care about
January - went to breakfast with Kathleen, attended a concert with Shelley, Kevin, Marie and Cydnee, went to dinner at the Dixon's home, babysat for Adam and Syd so they could have a break, invited Cydnee over for a sleepover, visited Jordan and Jake and family, attended Kate's welcome home, went to the airport to welcome her, went to lunch with LaRita, February - attended a benefit dinner with the Lindleys, visited Claire and R and family, visited Sarah F., had the Densley's over for dinner, attended a bridal shower for Brooke, threw a birthday luncheon for Kathleen, attended and helped at Brooke's wedding reception, March - went to Sofia's thesis defense, enjoyed my mom, sisters and nieces at my 60th birthday party, met Mary R. for lunch, helped Dara with her finances and went to help her find a new place to live, had the Juan P.s over for dinner, went to lunch with Tiffany and Diane, went to dinner with Scott H. and Lori, spent time together getting a pedicure with my aunt Lorna and cousin Diane April - breakfast with my mission companion and one of our converts from Argentina and her daughter.  What a sweet reunion!


Hosted Chelsea's family who came to town for their graduation, celebrated Audrey's graduation by going to lunch, went to AZ to help out the R family after Jake had surgery May visited Dave and Courtney and children in North Carolina for a week, hosted two lunches for the professors who helped A & C at BYU, took care of my friend Sue who had a stroke in my home for a week, June helped Dara with her finances, celebrated our 36th wedding anniversary with Rick, attended Jake's homecoming, went to Rupert for a visit with the Smiths and attended Robert's funeral, went to Yellowstone with Claire and her family, celebrated our 60th birthdays with a party hosted by our kids July hosted 75 people for the 4th of July BBQ, enjoyed a family reunion with our children and grandchildren, enjoyed the visits of our children and their families for most of the month, went to Bear Lake with Rick and his family,
14.  serve at UVU in the Women's Success Center board
Met for two board meetings and contributed.  Signed up to mentor three college students, got training and met with them individually (one widowed mother of five, one 18 year old, one 20 year old from a troubled family) to help them work towards receiving a college degree, attended more meetings and met with my mentees and provided breakfast, attended a talk by Sheri Dew sponsored by the Women's Success center, met with my mentees during the month, attended the closing social with my mentees, helped set up a meeting with some potential donors to the WSC,
15.  finish visiting the rest of the 50 states I haven't been to including: Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri and Oklahoma

Thursday, April 16, 2015

March goal report

1.  Attend all 15 temples in Utah, attend the temple twice a month        January - Salt Lake City with Stephanie as she received her endowment & Phoenix temple, February - Monticello temple & Provo temple, March - Jordan River temple & Bountiful temple



2.  read the Ensign every month
      January - check
      February - check
      March - check
3.  dejunk, clean and organize my home
4.  update all my photo albums, label and date them
While in St. George for a week, I started this process by organizing all the loose photos and starting putting them back in the albums where they belong
5.  start writing my personal history
6.  sew something for each grandchild
     made Lizzie an apron
     made Will a Superman cape
7.  sew my Christmas presents
8.  spend more time in my yard gardening, etc.
9.  walk 10,000 steps 5 days a week (thanks to my new FitBit this will be measurable!)
    January -  I'm averaging about 6,000 steps over five days a week, thanks to my FitBit for keeping track.   February - I need to kick that up once I can get outside more.  Not doing as well as I would like to.  March - my FitBit stopped working, but I'm doing my routine and hopefully hitting my goal. 
10.  Lose 15 pounds
     Lost the two I put on plus one more.  Moving in the right direction now. Slowly. March - slow progress, 1 pound lost
11.  Read 15 books
       Orphan Train
       Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet
       Mary, the Mother of Jesus
12.  support and love my mother more in her advancing years
       January - visited Mom at her home and took her to the Hardware Ranch, a place she use to visit as a child,  February - called her several time a week, March - visited for the weekend, helped her set up her patio, went on some drives, helped her with her meds, etc.
13.  strengthen the relationships with people I care about
January - went to breakfast with Kathleen, attended a concert with Shelley, Kevin, Marie and Cydnee, went to dinner at the Dixon's home, babysat for Adam and Syd so they could have a break, invited Cydnee over for a sleepover, visited Jordan and Jake and family, attended Kate's welcome home, went to the airport to welcome her, went to lunch with LaRita, February - attended a benefit dinner with the Lindleys, visited Claire and R and family, visited Sarah F., had the Densley's over for dinner, attended a bridal shower for Brooke, threw a birthday luncheon for Kathleen, attended and helped at Brooke's wedding reception, March - went to Sofia's thesis defense, enjoyed my mom, sisters and nieces at my 60th birthday party, met Mary R. for lunch, helped Dara with her finances and went to help her find a new place to live, had the Juan P.s over for dinner, went to lunch with Tiffany and Diane, went to dinner with Scott H. and Lori, spent time together getting a pedicure with my aunt Lorna and cousin Diane
14.  serve at UVU in the Women's Success Center board
Met for two board meetings and contributed.  Signed up to mentor three college students, got training and met with them individually (one widowed mother of five, one 18 year old, one 20 year old from a troubled family) to help them work towards receiving a college degree, attended more meetings and met with my mentees and provided breakfast, attended a talk by Sheri Dew sponsored by the Women's Success center, met with my mentees during the month
15.  finish visiting the rest of the 50 states I haven't been to including: Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri and Oklahoma

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

February goal report

1.  Attend all 15 temples in Utah, attend the temple twice a month        January - Salt Lake City with Stephanie as she received her endowment, Phoenix temple
       February - Monticello temple, Provo temple
2.  read the Ensign every month
      January - check
      February - check
3.  dejunk, clean and organize my home
4.  update all my photo albums, label and date them
5.  start writing my personal history
6.  sew something for each grandchild
     made Lizzie an apron
     made Will a Superman cape
7.  sew my Christmas presents
8.  spend more time in my yard gardening, etc.
9.  walk 10,000 steps 5 days a week (thanks to my new FitBit this will be measurable!)
     I'm averaging about 6,000 steps over five days a week, thanks to my FitBit for keeping track.           I need to kick that up once I can get outside more.  Not doing as well as I would like to.
10.  Lose 15 pounds
     Lost the two I put on plus one more.  Moving in the right direction now. Slowly.
11.  Read 15 books
       Orphan Train
       Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet
       Mary, the Mother of Jesus
12.  support and love my mother more in her advancing years
       Visited Mom at her home and took her to the Hardware Ranch, a place she use to visit as a child,  call her several time a week
13.  strengthen the relationships with people I care about
Went to breakfast with a Kathleen, attended a concert with Shelley, Kevin, Marie and Cydnee, went to dinner at the Dixon's home, babysat for Adam and Syd so they could have a break, invited Cydnee over for a sleepover, visited Jordan and Jake and family, attended Kate's welcome home, went to the airport, went to lunch with LaRita, attended a benefit dinner with the Lindleys, visited Claire and R and family, visited Sarah F., had the Densley's over for dinner, attended a bridal shower for Brooke, threw a birthday luncheon for Kathleen, attended and helped at Brooke's wedding reception
14.  serve at UVU in the Women's Success Center board
Met for two board meetings and contributed.  Signed up to mentor three college students, got training and met with them individually (one widowed mother of five, one 18 year old, one 20 year old from a troubled family) to help them work towards receiving a college degree, attended more meetings and met with my mentees and provided breakfast
15.  finish visiting the rest of the 50 states I haven't been to including: Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri and Oklahoma

Monday, February 9, 2015

January goal report

Here is a report on the progress of my goals.  It helps to report it here.  Feel free to spur me on!
  • Attend all 15 temples in Utah, attend the temple twice a month
Phoenix temple with Jordan and Jake


new beautiful Phoenix temple


Salt Lake City temple lobby with niece
Stephanie after she received her endowment

  • read the Ensign every month

January issue - check
  • dejunk, clean and organize my home
  • update all my photo albums, label and date them
  • start writing my personal history
  • sew something for each grandchild
  • sew my Christmas presents 
  • spend more time in my yard gardening, etc.
  • walk 10,000 steps 5 days a week (thanks to my new FitBit from Rick and Claire, this will be measurable!)
I'm averaging about 7,000 steps over seven days a week, thanks to my FitBit for keeping track.  I need to kick that up once I can get outside more.  Making progress!
  • Lose 15 pounds 
Put on two pounds.  What??
  • Read 15 books
I've read Orphan Train and Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet
  • support and love my mother more in her advancing years
Visited Mom at her home and took her to the Hardware Ranch, a place she use to visit as a child, call her several time a week
  • strengthen the relationships with people I care about
Went to breakfast with a Kathleen, attended a concert with Shelley, Kevin, Marie and Cydnee, went to dinner at the Dixon's home, babysat for Adam and Syd so they could have a break, invited Cydnee over for a sleepover, visited Jordan and Jake and family
  • serve at UVU in the Women's Success Center board
Met for two board meetings and contributed.  Signed up to mentor three college students, got training and met with them individually (one widowed mother of five, one 18 year old, one 20 year old from a troubled family) to help them work towards receiving a college degree
  • finish visiting the rest of the 50 states I haven't been to including: Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri and Oklahoma 

Thursday, January 8, 2015

A new year to make...

...a new beginning.  I have a new resolve to do better, be better, accomplish something worthwhile, work harder, serve more, be kinder, forgive, learn, be more patient, stretch, be happier, become more. I'm excited about it!  I'm turning 60 this year.  I'm retiring on May 1 from work, after 20 consecutive years of working nearly every day.  I'm starting some new chapters in my life and I'm very excited about it.  What will this next decade bring?
I'm hopeful that I've mostly done with visiting Dr. offices.  I've met our out of pocket deductible for three years in a row now and I'm ready for some good health and more mobility with my new knee reaching the one year anniversary since replacement on February 6.  My oncologist and my radiation oncologist said they don't want to see me again for six months.  Hooray!  That is such good news to me.  My other "issues" are stable now, so I'm ready to be healthy, eat healthier, get moving and just feel better.
I'm excited for a new decade to begin in my life.  New challenges to move forward.  New ideas for goals I'm excited about.
Here are a my goals for this year, 15 in 2015:
  • Attend all 15 temples in Utah, attend the temple twice a month
  • read the Ensign every month
  • dejunk, clean and organize my home
  • update all my photo albums, label and date them
  • start writing my personal history
  • sew something for each grandchild
  • sew my Christmas presents 
  • spend more time in my yard gardening, etc.
  • walk 10,000 steps 5 days a week (thanks to my new FitBit from Rick and Claire, this will be measurable!)
  • Lose 15 pounds
  • Read 15 books
  • support and love my mother more in her advancing years
  • strengthen the relationships with people I care about
  • serve at UVU in the Women's Success Center board
  • finish visiting the rest of the 50 states I haven't been to including: Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri and Oklahoma
 I plan to report back here on my progress on my goals.  Wish me luck!

 "When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance is measured and reported, the rate of improvement accelerates" (see Thomas S. Monson, in Conference Report, Oct. 1970, 107).