Our son Andy has been blessed with many good friends. He became friends with many of these boys when they were in grade school. Above is a picture of Brady and Taylor when they were in forth grade with Andy. They have had more adventures than you can imagine. Most of it has been harmless fun (with one or two visits/calls from the police, but I won't go into those at this time.) We feel so fortunate that Andy chose good friends and that they collectively chose to engage in good activities. Is there any bigger blessing for a child than having good friends during the teenage years? We count our blessings in that regard with all of our children.
Their freshman year of college, six of them lived together in an apartment while they attended UVSC or BYU. They had more fun than is probably legal. During these months, Andy was honored to be asked to baptise one of his friends Ronnie (seen below in the white shirt without a jacket) into the church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints. All of the boys were good examples to Ronnie and included him in all their activities.
They started receiving their mission calls last fall and the first to enter the MTC was Taylor. We have attended the farewells of these good boys and have wished them well as they have gone to serve the Lord. Rick and I got to see all these good Elders of Israel as they came through the MTC. We loved chatting with them, sometimes eating dinner with them and watching them grow and change. We moms started a "missionary mom group" meeting for lunch to visit and share information about our sons and their missions. We set up a monthly email list to share our sons letters and emails with their friends so that they can stay in touch since they have so little time to write letters. It's been so uplifting to receive the emails from all these good Elders and read them before sending them off to our sons. That way we parents can learn how they are doing as well.
When Andy was in the Missionary Training Center, five or six of his friends were in training at the same time. Here is a priceless picture showing some of them in front of the world map in the MTC, pointing to where they are going to serve across the world. They are truly boys turning into men right before our eyes. They are going out to do some good in the world. I pay tribute to the latter-day Armies of Helaman!
"And they were all young men, and they were exceedingly valiant for courage, and also for strength and activity; but behold, this was not all--they were men who were true at all times in whatsoever thing they were entrusted. Yeah, they were men of truth and soberness, for they had been taught to keep the commandments of God and to walk uprightly before him." Alma 53: 20-21.
as shown by the world map above:
Elder Andy -Mongolia. Ulaanbaatar
Elder Tanner - Thailand, Bangkok (Tanner's parents are Thai and he was called to serve in their native land and learn to speak Thai. How cool is that?)
Elder Tanner - Russia, Vladivostok
Elder Brady - Illinois, Chicago
Elder Tom - Pennsylvania, Philadelphia (Spanish)
Elder Jake - Ukraine, Donetsk
others not shown
Elder Taylor - Pennysylania, Harrisburg
Elder Dustin - Argentina, Rosario (yes, this is the mission where I served!)
Elder Mike - California, SanDiego
Elder Mark -
Elder Ric - California, San Bernadino (a change from his origional call of Russia, Vladivostok
Elder Jon - waiting for his call to come in August (UPDATE - Jon was called to serve in the Mexico, Chiquaqua mission)
McKay joined the Marines right after they graduated from high school last year. He is submitting his papers, hoping to get a mission call and then receive a two year leave of absense from the Marines so he can serve. Afterwards he'll return to military duty. (UPDATE - McKay was called to serve in the Columbia, Cali mission. He will deploy for one year to Afganistan and then he'll head out on his mission.)
4 comments:
It will be interesting to see if they all remain friends post-mission. The Bot has funny friends. Too bad you can't post portions of that video they made of glow sticks and Icy Hot on the toilet seat.
Oh, and you can change your settings so more than just your most recent 6 or 7 posts show up on your main page if you want. I like to have a dozen just because people still comment on the old ones if they are up.
Very cool for the bot. Those are all good boys and I always enjoyed my interactions with them. Good friends are essential for teenagers and I'm so glad Andy had these great guys.
Good friends with good values are priceless, and friends with bad values are horrible. It's about that simple, since you tend to adopt the habits and practices of your friends. Thank goodness for the friends of all the kids, and their influence. I do, though, remember this motto as well:
family is more important than friends.
ree ree
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