Friday, May 10, 2013

In my mind I'm gone to Carolina

In my mind I'm gone to Carolina
Can't you see the sunshine?
Can't you just feel the moonshine?
And, ain't it just like a friend of mine
To hit me from behind?
Yes, I'm gone to Carolina in my mind

James Taylor

I went to Charlotte, North Carolina in my mind and literally a couple of weeks ago.  It was heaven.  It is so beautiful and green it is hard to believe.  Growing up and living in the west almost all of my life, I remember the first time I went to Virginia and saw all the green trees as the plane landed.  There were trees as far as the eyes could see.  Roads cut through never ending groves of trees.  North Carolina is no exception and it is something to behold. It is also something to get use to since I'm more comfortable seeing my surroundings for miles in any direction.  That isn't possible when you live in a forest.
The BEST part was seeing little Charlie man and Dave and Courtney.  Charlie had just learned to walk and he was busting a move and walking all over the place, all the while holding his little chubby arms in the air to balance himself.  We took some wonderful walks through the surrounding neighborhoods and shopping centers and a couple of drives through the city to get a lay of the land.  Charlotte is a beautiful and sprawling city. I helped them get packed up and ready to move to their next assignment.  It was so much fun to spend time with them and to chat and chat for hours on end. I'm so proud of this young family and for the good life they have carved out for themselves!

Here we go, off on an adventure!

The skyline of Charlotte.  It is a financial center with lots of banks.
Meeting Dave for lunch and seeing where he
 worked.  His building is in the background.

Charlie rocking his shades going out for an adventure.

This baby boy loves books.  Lots and lots of books.

Courtney and I went to breakfast with Jenny
 who is a great family friend.  We chatted for
 hours and enjoyed getting caught up.
 She and her family also live in Charlotte!

In front of Dave and Courtney's apartment

Darling Courtney having some play time
 with Charlie who was laughing his head off.

Enjoying some southern cooking at Mac's.

No meal would be complete without lots
 of different choices for BBQ sauce.  Yum!

I've never seen this phenomenon anywhere else
 but the south...using pine needles as ground cover and mulch.
  Cool!

The view outside of Dave and Courtney's
 apartment...trees all around.

Getting out and walking around a beautiful lake

Sitting pretty in his Cadillac stroller!

Off to church

The cute family

Packing up and moving out

Some stuff stayed in Charlotte and some stuff went to Boston

Goodby my sweet little friend! Until we meet again.

Friday, May 3, 2013

Something to get excited about!

Education! 
 For young men and young women. 
 Especially for young women who are also single mothers. 

I was invited to attend a gathering of about 300 women in our area in support of education at Utah Valley University.  It was such a worthwhile meeting and I felt like it was for a worthwhile goal. The main objective was to network with other women and learn how we can help young women be more successful in college and help them complete their education so that they can support themselves and their families if needed.  There were plenty of women there who could contribute financially, and others like me who could contribute time and experience.  Figuring out ways to help women complete their post secondary education, especially women who are also young mothers, is such an important goal.  We enjoyed a delicious luncheon and some nice entertainment, but more importantly, we learned about what is happening at UVU to help young women and specifically young mothers succeed in starting, continuing or finishing their educational goals.


This concept has been in the back of my mind for years and years.  Working at BYU I've seen thousands of young women on campus working towards their educational goals.  The old adage "if you educate a mother, you educate generations" - rings true to me.  I love to see thousands of young women educating their minds and preparing for their futures.  However, BYU has not made it easy for those young women who may also have children.  25% of the student body at BYU is married and 48% of the 29,000 student body is female.  Young married women either have to delay having children or figure out how to juggle education with child care while they are in class, drop out of school or delay their education until later. There is no day care available on campus.  I think BYU (the LDS Church) is being cautions in avoiding sending out the message that they endorse young women leaving their children in day care to pursue their education.  To me, it's a catch 22 because the LDS church values education and regularly encourages young women to receive an education or training so that they can support themselves in the future if needed.  They just don't make it that easy to do that at BYU.
Enter UVU.  Utah Valley University is located only a couple of miles from the BYU campus.  They are a state run university and hence don't have to worry about sending out the message that young mothers are supported in leaving their children in day care to pursue their own educational goals.  And more importantly, they are sending out the strong message that young SINGLE mothers have support on their campus by providing affordable or discounted day care for children to attend while their mothers are in class.  There is such a need for this service. In another post I'll share what they are specifically doing. 

The state of Utah has established the Utah Women and Education initiative just for this purpose.

Utah Women and Education Initiative

The Utah Women and Education Initiative (UWEI) is the outcome of a need to increase the number of Utah women holding postsecondary degrees and certificates, enabling them to:
  • more effectively contribute to the local, social, and economic development of the state;
  • realize their own potential for positive influence and contributions to the public and private good; and
  • positively influence and contribute in family, societal, and work contexts.
The Initiative will orchestrate a collective effort for Utah to become one of the most innovative and successful states in the union by harnessing the power of education for its residents. Educators, business people, and community members are working together to achieve the goal of having 66% of Utahns aged 20-64 attain postsecondary degrees or certificates.  Utah leaders believe that we must harness the power of education for our residents and continue to help more women complete college degrees and certificates.
 
Both men and women with postsecondary degrees and certificates, whether they participate in the paid workforce or not, are better prepared for roles as community members, homemakers, and caretakers. As noted by Dr. Susan Madsen and colleagues, “A college education is more than a gateway to an affluent lifestyle. Earning a college degree has implications far beyond the workplace.  The non-tangible benefits of receiving a college degree are, at minimum, equivalent to the monetary ones, and they extend from individuals to families and communities.”  Among other benefits, Dr. Madsen cites research that shows the following advantages for college educated women: a healthier lifestyle, increased life satisfaction, better lifelong learning skills, expanded knowledge, enhanced analytic skills, deeper creative thinking, better decision making, increased civic and community engagement, strengthened leadership skills, more developed social skills, heightened self-esteem, and stronger reasoning. These benefits are felt tangibly as women help mold the next generation of Utah children and strengthen our society.

I hope to get involved in this worthwhile goal in some way.

Thursday, April 25, 2013

St. George (again)


 
Rick attended his annual conference again this year and I got to go with him and work on my projects and enjoy some warmer weather for four days.  This year I took four large boxes of papers and treasures and continued to go through them and keep the good stuff to put in plastic pages/binders and get rid of the rest.  I found some good treasures along the way. I also watched several movies on HBO that I hadn't seen before. Rick and I took some lovely walks and discovered some new places. We saw two movies - Jack Reacher and "42" about the life of Jackie Robinson and enjoyed them both. We're going to return with our kids in June after Andy's wedding and now we know of some good places to visit.  I love to discover new things to do in St. George.  We also drove around and saw some mansion houses that are in the surrounding areas and wondered if they are all second homes or if people live in those homes year round.  Hum..interesting.  So much construction is still going on there.
The Town Square park is lovely with a splash pad and a carousel and a children's museum will be opening this summer.  We'll be going to this:

 to see this:


We went to this place to see this sculpture that we had heard about. It is an interesting representation of what might happen when a person passes away as they go through the veil and return to the Savior.



Althought we've been here before, we always enjoy visiting the St. George Tabernacle
to see the workmanship of Rick's great, great grandpa Miles who was the head architect responsible for building the tabernacle.  We both commented that the apple has fallen very far from the tree since Rick, his dad and his grandpa don't know a hammer from a screwdriver.  Seriously, they aren't handy at all but they have other skills that have made up for it.
I really love to visit St. George and this year was no exception.  We had a great time and enjoyed a delicious meal at The Painted Pony restaurant the last night we were there and also did some temple sealings in this beautiful place.
  I did my very best to show some self control and NOT eat pie for lunch and dinner at this place.

Saturday, April 20, 2013

On the road again

We were so happy we could be in town to celebrate
 Jake's birthday with him this year.  He is such a wonderful
 man, father and husband and we love him!
I haven't done much traveling over the past 8 months since my cancer treatment began. That all ended the first part of April when I took three trips all in a roll!  First to Arizona. Next to St George. Then finally to Charlotte, North Carolina. I must say...I love to travel.  And more than that...I love to visit our children & their families and see how they are doing.

Ada giving some loves to her daddy.


Ellie sharing some hugs.

Enjoying a yummy Italian dinner at Oregano with all the crew

Topping it all off with a cookie-icecream dessert.

Ellie wearing my stuff and putting on her Grandma Vonnie persona.


She does me well, don't you think?

No visit to AZ would be complete with out eating at Tia Rosa's.

The weather was perfect for eating out on the
patio with Paul and DeNae.  Loved our visit with them.

Great-grandma Pat enjoyed her time with the AZ family.
 She had never been to their home and she had a great time.

Me, Lauren and DeNae eating up some great Mexican food.
Perfect weather and lots of sun shine!

We got to visit Paul and DeNae's new home.  What a beauty.

The girls had a great time with great Grandma Pat.
 She bought a bird cage for them to enjoy some bird watching.

Getting set up...I wonder if any birds will come??


Jord and Jake's new couches large
 enough for a crowd.  So comfy and stylish.

We enjoyed shopping at Last Chance (I found some wonderful dress shoes for the wedding at a great price) and we couldn't get Pat out of there, pedicure, going to the Dollar Store with the girls, walks, bike rides, swimming, playing Old Maid, UNO and Skipbo with the girls, watching all sessions of General Conference on the comfort of the lovely new couches, going to the Mesa temple, visiting Jake's work, eating on the patio and just enjoying lovely warm weather and our family.  It was such a fun and relaxing visit.