Thursday, June 1, 2017

Aunt Gayla & Uncle Bill


 Over the winter, my Uncle Bill (married to Aunt Rhonda) and later my Aunt Gayla (widowed 20 years ago) passed away.  They both lived such full, fulfilling, worthwhile lives.  I was impacted by their examples, their cheerfulness, their love of life, of the gospel of Jesus Christ, of their families and of our great country.  It was an honor to attend their services and join with my aunts, uncles and cousins in celebrating their accomplishments and legacies.  Aunt Gayla had suffered a debilitating stroke five years ago and she lost her speech and the use of the right side of her body.  Even in her extremity, she had a smile on her face and did the best she could under very difficult circumstances.We visited her many times at the care center where she lived and it was a honor to be in her presence.  Her motto, which actually came from my grandpa Lavon was, Always Be Happy! She and uncle Bill were happy people even though they weathered many storms in life.  I'm so grateful for their sterling examples.


My 90 year old mother came to town for her sister
Gayla's funeral.  It was good to have her in our
home again after several years.
At Uncle Bill's funeral.
 Just several weeks later, Aunt Gayla was gone.
 Mom, Aunt Gayla, my sister Carol  and me.

Aunt Gayla in her motorize chair.
  There's that smile.  Look out!

Always full of fun.

The beautiful flowers on Gayla's casket designed
 by her talented daughter May.  Purple, my favorite!

Handiwork made by my Grandma Mamie.
 This type of hand work is a lost art.
 I'm so impressed by the intricate patterns and
skill involved in making such creations.

I helped to sort out Gayla's seasonal decor so that
 her family could each take something as a keepsake.

My Grandma Mamie's jewelry box.
While organizing Gayla's things I found $500 cash
in an envelope and her diamond wedding ring that
had been lost for over 20 years. 
 My cousins were ecstatic!

Vintage jewelry of Gayla's and grandma's

A photo history quilt of Gayla's

Displays at her funeral




Many hand made items Gayla made over the years.
 Look at the vintage mirror and hair brush!
Uncle Bill's family.
  His eight awesome children and their spouses
 along with my sweet Aunt Rhonda.  They are an amazing family!

WW II vet, buried with full honors

Red, white and blue proud!


1 comment:

Vonnie said...

These two great people were and are stalwarts, Gayla and Bill. They lived lives of purpose, service, faithfulness, and devotion to God, family, country, and community. The world is better for their having been in it. We love you, Gayla and Bill.

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