Sunday, December 14, 2008

Christmas traditions - #10







I believe in Santa Claus. I really do.
I've always believed that he has the magical ability to make dreams come true. Growing up our parents did an extremely good job in building expectations and setting the stage for Christmas morning when we would get up to see what gifts Santa Claus had brought us. We had a ritual that we followed the night before and I remember lying awake for hours and hours in anticipation of the next morning. I would listen intently for any sounds that he might be in the house and I would wait and wait for the highly anticipated call from our father in the early morning "Good gal, he's been here!!!" Then we children would run wildly into the room to see what Santa had brought us. None of this eating breakfast first stuff. None of that waiting in line and filing into the room in an orderly fashion. As I recall, it was just run in the room and go for it! We would have - what seemed like- heaps of gifts (unwrapped) sitting in the place on the couch or a chair where we left our stockings the night before. The stockings would be filled and the gifts would be left and year after glorious year, the same thing would happen. Our parents worked magic and I became a true believer (which I still am.) With seven children, they did a marvelous job of creating a wonderful Christmas environment in our home and meeting our expectations.
In our family, our children wrote letters to Santa early in the month and mailed the letters. They would make up lists of the gifts they would like Santa to bring them and check them twice. They would try and be kind and not do anything too naughty. Rick and I would try our best to make their dreams come true and create a magical Christmas morning. I believe that children should believe in magic, and Santa Claus is magic to me still. I don't understand parents who don't allow their children to believe in Santa Claus or who ruin the magic of it all. Children find out soon enough about the ways of the world and they have such a small period of time when they can believe in things that don't intellectually make sense. They grow out of a belief in magic soon enough and I'm a believer in prolonging the inevitable as long as possible!
Traditionally, we put all of our Santa decorations in the family room and this is the place where we have enjoyed Christmas morning, the hanging of stockings on Christmas eve and the opening of gifts on Christmas morning . In our home early in the morning Mrs. Santa liked to turn up the heat by starting a fire, turn on some Christmas music and plug in the lights to the Christmas tree. There was a nice ambiance in the room for Christmas morning. Rick now call out "Good gal, he's been here" and the kids come running down from the upstairs. They liked to look through their Christmas stockings, check out any unwrapped gifts and then move on to opening the gifts under the tree one by one. There were usually lots of "oohs and aahs" and excited expressions and hopefully everyone was happy with the gifts Santa brought. Santa would bring toys and other items and the we parents would also provide gifts wrapped under the tree.
The tradition of Santa Claus is a fun part of Christmas. It's not the most important part, obviously, but it has a part in the celebration of Christmas that I have always enjoyed.
What's not to love about this legend?
"One legend associated with Santa says that he lives in the far north, in a land of perpetual snow. The American version of Santa Claus lives at the North Pole, while Father Christmas is said to reside in Lapland. Other details include: that he is married and lives with Mrs. Claus; that he makes a list of children throughout the world, categorizing them according to their behavior; that he delivers presents, including toys, candy, and other presents to all of the good boys and girls in the world, and sometimes coal or sticks to the naughty children, in one night; and that he accomplishes this feat with the aid of magical elves who make the toys, and eight or nine flying reindeer who pull his sleigh."

Saturday, December 13, 2008

For men..a little gift giving training

I don't know if there are any men who read my blog, but if so, check out this video. and consider yourself warned.......hahahaha! Some of you female friends may want to show this video to your husband/boyfriend/significant other if they need a little training! Good luck!
Having said that, I realize that there are many men who already have this gift buying thing figured out and to them I say ~ Way to go!

Friday, December 12, 2008

Christmas traditions - #9


cHRiStMaS CarDs!!!

Check out this interesting blog entry called writing "Christmas Letters 101." It has some interesting things to consider when writing a family Christmas letter.
And that brings me to the main point on Christmas tradition #9. To send a card only or to send a family letter as well? To send an email card or to send no card at all. That is the question. Some people have strong feelings on the subject. Some people don't like the family letters and they just throw them away (or worse, they make fun of them!) I've kind of figured out some who don't like the family letters and I decided not to even bother them with it anymore.
I haven't ever really viewed the family newsletter as a "brag letter". I consider it a "catch up letter" and I enjoy reading them. For me, I LOVE Christmas cards that include a family letter or a note of some sort. I read every word and I enjoy catching up with family and friends to see what their year has been like, especially those who live far away. We've always sent a Christmas card/letter and I enjoy receiving them as well. When Rick gets home from work each day during December he always asks to see which cards have come that day and he enjoys reading what people have sent.
For years, I taped each card on to my kitchen hutch. More recently I have been putting them all in this HUGE Christmas stocking that hangs on the back of our front door. It gets really loaded by the time Christmas rolls around. Our kids who live far away even enjoy taking down the stocking and reading the cards and letters that are contained therein, because they know many of the people.
I love the family pictures on the Christmas cards, I love the Christmas greetings, I love the well-wishes and I love the kinds sentiments that are expressed. And I really enjoy the family updates!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Christmas traditions - #8



My sister Janet and I agree that "the neighborhood gift" sometimes causes ambivalent feelings. On the one hand, it IS fun to give and to receive and on the other hand, it usually takes a lot of time, some money and quite a bit of effort to make it happen - especially if you're making several dozen. I do like to give our neighbors something to let them now we're thinking about them and to wish them a Merry Christmas. We usually give a little something to our Home and Visiting Teaching families and our close friends in the neighborhood. But here is one of the problems - what if you give something to someone and not to someone else and they find out that they were left out....there is the potential for hurt feelings. Or another issue - you give a small inexpensive gift/treat to your neighbor and he/she gives you a more elaborate gift. Or yet another - Do you try and give something to everyone who gives you something? What if they came to your door on Christmas Eve to give you something and you don't have anything for them? And finally - do you ever re- gift??? How do you deal with this neighborhood gift "problem?"
Some things to consider:
  • When your husband is the Bishop of the ward, people give you A LOT of stuff, mostly food and treats. I think it might be better to give the Bishop some sort or non-food item or take it over to the church so that all the staff can share while they are doing T. settlement. They're usually starving over there anyway. Unfortunately, we ended up throwing some treats out.
  • Do you like home-baked treats? Some people I know (who will remain anonymous) feel anxious about eating some home prepared food and they throw it away.
  • What do you do for your child's teachers or leaders? Anything?
One couple in our neighborhood made it a policy to give a generous donation to the Humanitarian Aid fund instead of give neighborhood gifts. They took a card around to everyone and wished them a Merry Christmas, and noted in the card that they had made a donation instead of giving a neighborhood gift. I like this idea!
I'm always looking for something to do for "the gift." I've stolen/shared some great ideas from my sisters over the years and we've even made the gifts together to get them done and ready to give. I love advance preparation! This year I bought a case of inexpensive Santa cookie jars from Tai Pan and I made my sister Ann's cinnamon oatmeal pancake mix to put inside the jar. Mixes are so expensive to buy and this pancake mix is to die for! Plus it uses food storage items you will probably already have on hand. In case you're not on my list this year for a neighborhood gift, you'll have to go ahead and make the mix yourself....and please don't be offended that I didn't give you one. (hahahaha!)
Here you go: (oh, and please have a Merry Christmas)

Cinnamon Oatmeal Pancake Mix
4 c. quick oats
2 c. flour
2 c. whole wheat flour
1 c. dry milk
1/2 c. sugar
1 T. cinnamon
2 t. salt
3 T. baking powder
1/2 t. cream of tartar

Mix together and put in an airtight container for no more than 6 months (as if it would last that long.) This mix will do about 4 batches of pancakes. When you're ready to make them, add 2 cups of the mix to 2 eggs, 3 T. oil and 1 c. water, mix and cook on a griddle.

This MUST HAVE syrup goes with them:
Almond buttermilk syrup
2 cubes butter
2 c. sugar
1 c. buttermilk
Boil 1 minute and then add 1 t. soda and 1 t. almond concentrate (a must) ENJOY!

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Surprise! A New Look...

Yes, it's still me. Quite by accident, I got a new look on my blog. I was looking to edit and change something else, and bababa boom....this is what I ended up with. I guess it's OK, but I liked purple better :) I know I could go back to what I had, but change is good too! I just wish I knew how to widen the margins. I'd rather have wider text with not so much boarder showing. Anyone, anyone???