Friday, March 23, 2018

John 14: 26-27, Peace I leave with you...


Stake Women's Conference
Presentation of the theme: John 14: 26-27
My intro talk about our theme

Our desire today is that you will feel our Savior’s love for you as a dear daughter of God who is valued and cherished and watched over and guided.  We hope that when you leave the conference later today, you will be buoyed up, with new ideas and ways of looking at the challenges in life.  We hope that you will be more appreciative of the joy that comes to you in your life.  Many of you are looking for peace and comfort and it is our fervent prayer that you will be inspired by the Holy Ghost to attend the classes today that will best meet your needs and give you the peace you are seeking.  Our presenters are all well prepared and have sought the guidance of the spirit.  One class will be taught in Spanish for those who would like to hear this beautiful language, either because it is their native  language or because it was their mission language.

After seeking the guidance of the spirit, our presidency has chosen the theme found in John 14: 26-27.  In this chapter, Jesus is preparing his disciples for the time when he will no longer be with them.  He has taught them well and then states in vs. 25: “these things I have spoken unto you, yet being present with you.”  But he wasn’t  always going to be present with them and of course he isn’t physically present with us either.  But then he tells them of a great gift he is going to leave with them and says “But the Comforter, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.”

The footnotes tell us what we probably already know, that the Comforter is the Holy Ghost.  Each of you here today who have been baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have been give this gift!  Are you using it to bless your life?  Are you accessing the power and help that comes through this incomprehensible gift?  Are you underutilizing this precious gift and are you looking for help for challenges and answers elsewhere? Are you letting The Holy Ghost teach you and bring all things to your remembrance?  Are you letting it teach you how to deal with challenging children, stressful work situations, aging parents, unhappy marriages, financial difficulties, mental health issues, loneliness, infertility, too much fertility, and so on and so on?  Are you letting it bring to your remembrance all the good times of the past that you have enjoyed with family and friends, the joy of a wedding day, the time when you felt the spirit for the first time; the time when you knew that this church was Christ’s church restored on the earth for the last time, or the time when you read the Book of Mormon and felt the truthfulness of it burn into your heart and know that is was the word of God? 

How much time do we spend being taught by the Comforter and letting Him teach us continually the teachings of Christ?  How often do we invite the Comforter to comfort us?  Let the Comforter do his job!  Invite him to comfort YOU!

Going on in vs. 27 Jesus says:  Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; not as the word giveth, give I unto you.  Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. 

We receive peace through Christ!  He gives his peace in a unique and special way, tailored for our individual needs and circumstances.  But sisters, we have to ask for it.  We have to actively seek it.  We have to look for peace in places where he has said we will find it.  Places like our homes, the scriptures, through prayer, by going to the temple, at church, listening to general conference, doing Family History work, going on a family reunion and connecting with our loved ones, praying with our spouses or alone if no spouse is readily available for a time.  We may find answers and peace through chats with trusted friends, or through professionals who are trained in the skills of sorting out the challenges in life.  We find peace in The Savior’s words, following his example, and truly trying to be more like Him.  Peace is available to them who seek it.  Simple enough, right?  If only it were so.

The world cannot give us this peace, and it never will.  The world is lead by the great destroyer will tell you that you’re not good enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not desirable, not talented and that you have nothing to offer.  Don’t listen to this con artist, the teller of lies and the great deceiver.  He wants you to join his ranks and he will stay at it, chipping away at your peace and comfort with great skill and patience.  Turn him away and tell him that you’re on the Lord’s side!

We just sang a rousing hymn, “There is Sunshine in my soul today.”  I loved to hear you sing with gusto! Let that light, which is Jesus shine in your life!  Because as the next line says: And Jesus listening can hear, the songs I cannot sing.”  He is the only one who knows the songs you cannot sing, the desires of your heart and your innermost yearnings.  Reread Elder Holland April 2017 talk for valuable insights.  He says:


Brothers and sisters, we live in a mortal world with many songs we cannot or do not yet sing. But I plead with each one of us to stay permanently and faithfully in the choir, where we will be able to savor forever that most precious anthem of all—“the song of redeeming love.”11 Fortunately, the seats for this particular number are limitless. There is room for those who speak different languages, celebrate diverse cultures, and live in a host of locations. There is room for the single, for the married, for large families, and for the childless. There is room for those who once had questions regarding their faith and room for those who still do. There is room for those with differing sexual attractions. In short, there is a place for everyone who loves God and honors His commandments as the inviolable measuring rod for personal behavior, for if love of God is the melody of our shared song, surely our common quest to obey Him is the indispensable harmony in it. With divine imperatives of love and faith, repentance and compassion, honesty and forgiveness, there is room in this choir for all who wish to be there.12 “Come as you are,” a loving Father says to each of us, but He adds, “Don’t plan to stay as you are.” We smile and remember that God is determined to make of us more than we thought we could be.

Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal, cure or remove.*
(from the hymn, Come, Ye Disconsolate)

My testimony.

Thursday, March 22, 2018

Stake Women's Conference - year 2


Brian Kershisnik is the artist of this beautiful oil on canvas called "She Will Find What is Lost."  Of his oil painting Brian wrote: "many unseen forces are interested in you, love you, and work to influence matters for your profound benefit.  Most of what we all do is resist it, misinterpret it, or mess it up, but my experience indicates that these unseen efforts persist impossibly. 
 I thank God for that."

 We got the artist's permission (and paid him a small commission) to use this picture on our invitations and throughout the conference as we talked about the scripture found in 
John 14:26-27

Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you.
Not as the world giveth, give I unto you.  
Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

I can't say enough good about these women!  They all served with heart and soul and carried out their responsibilities above and beyond that was needed.  
Melinda was over the decorations (she worked with a woman in our stake who owns a catering business and she graciously let us BORROW,
 free of charge, all of the beautiful decorations you see below!),
Kathleen was over the printed invites, programs, publicity and signage,
Dana was over all the set up, take down and technology needs,
I was over the luncheon.



Our stake has had the tradition for 22 years of organizing and offering a half-day conference for the women in the stake that is planned and carried out with their needs in mind.  Last year, this was the conference, and this year we decided to go a different direction. We had a general session first with a beautiful musical number (Come, Ye Disconsolate), an intro of our theme (which was taken from John 14: 26-27) and short talks by our stake president and his first counselor and then we divided into the break out sessions.  










We wanted this conference to provide real help for real latter-day saint women who are living in 2018.  We hoped that the presenters would share experiences from their own lives and how those experiences relate to the gospel of Jesus Christ and how we can feel peace and comfort in our lives, even amid challenges and difficulties.  Each presenter had 45 minutes to speak and the women who attended the conference chose three of the classes to attend.  It was a very difficult choice for them to choose only three classes! The teachers were all so well prepared and the classes were excellent.  These were the topics of our classes:

1.  Helping children find happiness living the gospel
2. WWJD: Christ's example of radical inclusion
3.  Hope and resources for those dealing with depression
4.  Finding peace and joy amidst life's challenges
5.  Living with a grateful heart
6.  Feeling God's peace through music
7.  Finding peace and hope when a loved one chooses to live an alternative life style
8.  The Family Proclamation: A battle worth waging
9.  Keep on the covenant path - tips for the trail
10.  Sean creyentes y felices y no se desanimen todo saldra bien
11.  Is happily ever after a fairytale in marriage?  No!!
12. Education for life: finding peace by preparing you, your daughter, and granddaughters for their unknown futures
13.  Accessing the Holy Ghost in times of trial
14.  Combating loss with creating: service and charity (especially) during the rough times
15.  The miracle of family search

BYU take-out food did an excellent job preparing the shredded chicken and seasoned ground beef for our build-your-own taco salads.  We had all the trimmings and everyone could choose their own preferences.  We also had a huge bowl of Clementines (cutie oranges) and key lime tarts for dessert, also prepared by BYU food-to-go.  We had priesthood men help set up the chairs and tables, serve the luncheon and help with clean up.  They were wonderful!  Rick was a huge help in picking up the food and being a over all great helper that day.  Our High Counselor over Relief Society was wonderful as well.  The saying that many hands make light work was very evident this day.  I'm so grateful to ALL those who served, who attended and who shared their personal experiences and their lives.  We felt like the conference was time well spent and we received great feedback that the conference was helpful to many sisters.  We estimate that over 300 attended that morning, as their time permitted. This was our goal - give our sisters concrete ideas of how to find peace, joy and comfort in their lives.  We feel like this goal was accomplished! Success!!

Saturday, March 17, 2018

Easter Dessert!

Many years ago, my sister Mary Ann gave me a wonderful recipe book full of delicious recipes.  She highlighted some of her favorite recipes, so I have given many of them a try over the years.  One I particularly love around Easter time is this little beauty.  It is a fun, pastel colored, four layer dessert that is perfect for Easter.  And did I mention it is delicious?

Here is the recipe for Easter Dessert:

1st layer
1/2 cup butter
1 cup flour
1 cup chopped peacans
Mix and press into a 9 by 13 pan
Bake at 350 for 20 minutes.  Cool.

2nd layer
8 oz. cream cheese
1 cup powdered sugar
1 1/2 cups cool whip
1/4 t. almond extract
8 drops yellow food coloring
Mix well, spread on crust.

3rd layer
2 small packages instant pistachio pudding
3 cups milk
mix until slightly thick.  Pour over second layer and CHILL

4th layer
2 cups cool whip
1 t. almond extract
red food coloring to make it pink (about four drops)
Mix.  Spread over green layer.
Garnish with cool whip and sliced almonds.
(One 16 oz. Cool Whip is enough for this recipe.)

Enjoy!

Friday, March 16, 2018

The day of expressing love


We had a lot of fun this year sharing Valentines Day with our loved ones in town.  We invited the local crew over for dinner and I prepared some recipes I have never tried before.
Our menu:  Cafe Rio Copy Cat Sweet Pork Salad
And
Fresh dipped strawberries.
It was a hit!




I have never used tomatillos before.  What an interesting vegetable (or fruit?)
It comes all wrapped in it's own packaging and gives the Cafe Rio salad dressing its unique flavor.
Who knew?

A dozen roses from my love.
  My Blendtec full of this delicious dressing.

I put the left over in a jar in the fridge and it kept for a month.
What a funny little vegetable!
Valentine's Day is a tough one for Jordan.  She misses her sweetheart, and who can blame her.   Rick took her a couple dozen roses and we had their family over for dinner along with Claire, R and their children and my niece Sydney and her husband Adam and their three darling children.  It was a fun evening with a lot of visiting and catching up.  The kids always have a great time playing together.
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The grandkids gave us cute hand made Valentines and we gave them dinner.
Here is the recipes for those who haven't tried making these delicious dishes before:

Sweet pork:
6 lbs. boneless pork roast
1 16 oz. bottle salsa
1 12 oz. can cola
2 c. brown sugar

Cook pork roast in a crock pot (or instapot) all day.  2 hours before serving, drain juices, remove fat, and shred.  Add salsa, cola and brown sugar.  Cook for the remaining 2 hours on low.  This made a lot of meet and after dinner, I divided it into containers and froze it for future meals.  Meat is now all done!

Shredded chicken:
4 lbs. chicken breast
1 small bottle zesty Italian dressing
1 T. minced garlic
2 packages ranch dressing mix
1 T. chili powder
1 T. ground cumin

Place all ingredients in a crock pot.  Cook on low for 8 hours.  Shred with fork and serve.

Sweet Rice:
2 T. oil
2 1/4 c. long-grain rice, uncooked
4 cloves garlic, pressed
1/2 bunch cilantro, chopped
juice of 2 limes
4 c. water

In skillet, fry rice in oil.  Add garlic and cilantro, saute 3-5 minutes, stirring frequently.  Add lime juice and water.  Bring to a boil, cook on low until rice is done.  I cook mine in the rice cooker or Instapot.

Creamy Cilantro Dressing:

1 package buttermilk ranch dressing mix
3 tomatillos
1 c. mayonnaise
1 c. buttermilk
1 c. cilantro, chopped
2 cloves garlic, pressed
1 t. cayenne pepper (optional)

Combine all ingredients in a blender, blend on high.  Chill. That's it!  It makes a bunch and will keep in a jar in the fridge for a month.  It will separate, so just blend again before serving.

I also had guacamole, piko - tomatoes, cheese, chips, seasoned black beans, sour cream and cilantro on the side.  Delicious!





Saturday, March 10, 2018

Day 6 & 7 - Relax and enjoy

What's not to love about being in California in January?  We were very fortunate to be blessed with amazing weather the week while we were there.  Some days it was even too hot!  We loved lounging around the AirBnb house on the 6th day.  We had planned to drive to the beach, but when it was all said and done, we just stayed at the house and hung out.  We played games, watched a move, played in the game room, played the game of Things and Telestrations (our two favorites!) and went swimming in the heated pool. 

 That evening the men went to watch BYU basketball against Loyola Marymount Univeristy and we women and children just relaxed and got packed up and ready to leave the next morning.

Day 7 was the drive home.  Time to say goodbye, hug, and go our separate ways.  Andy and Chelsea returned to their home in LA, Dave and Courtney to NC, and the rest of us returned in the two vans to Utah.  Our lovely vacation was over, but the memories will hopefully remain for years to come.  We missed Jake.  We talked about him and we always will.  There is a vacant place where his humor, his personality and just his physical presence use to be.  We all love him so much. 
He will always be missed.

I love my family.  I love to spend time with them.  It was pure joy to to enjoy this vacation as a family and I'm so grateful for each and every member of our group.




The flowers were amazing!  Springtime in Anaheim.

I loved these lovely gardens outside of Disneyland.

Look at those tulips!

Look at those hydrangeas!
Many, many good laughs playing Telestrations!

Some people are not artists. (a leopard in case you wondered)

Even family history events were recreated.


The morning of the 6th day, I went out early and saw two geese
 swimming in the pool.  I also saw that they had left a
mess on the side of the pool, the narrow part around the hot tub.
 I went out with a paper towel to clean up their mess,
and mis stepped and fell into the hot tub in my PJs! 
I scrapped my leg, but no other damage was done.
 As the kids looked out from their breakfast,
 they saw me just soaking up the heat and they all wanted to get in.
 So at about 8:00 am, a party commenced at the pool

Movie time!

Dave and Sam enjoying a soak.

Then Grandpa dove in with his clothes on.  Again.  As usual.

There were lots of games of soccer and football in the lovely green grass yard.

So fun for everyone!